How do I know if Lisa Chen & Associates is the right fit for me?

We offer a complimentary 15-minute phone consultation. It's a chance to get to know us, understand our approach, and see if we align with your needs. The purpose of an initial consultation is to determine if you are a good fit for working together. You can expect a 15-20 minute conversation where you will have the opportunity to share your concerns, goals, and what you hope to achieve through therapy. This is also a chance for you to ask questions and get a sense of the therapist's approach and personality.

Our fees range from $180 to $350 per 50-minute session based on the clinician's experience, specialized training, and services provided. Lisa Chen's fees are $350 per 50-minute session for both individual and couples counseling. Licensed Client Session fees are $200 for individual and $225 for couples counseling per 50-minute session. Associate Clinician fees are $180 for individual and $200 for couples counseling per 50-minute session. We also reserve spots for clients requesting a sliding-scale rate to accommodate financial needs.

Do you accept insurance?

Lisa Chen & Associates are out-of-network providers. We provide monthly insurance statements ('Superbills') for you to seek partial reimbursement from your insurance company according to your policy. For questions about your out-of-network benefits, please contact your insurance carrier before scheduling.

What is your cancellation policy?

Weekly clients are allowed 3 free cancellations every 6 months, and bi-weekly clients are allowed 2 free cancellations every 6 months, beginning from the date of your first session. You will be responsible for payment for your normally scheduled session time for all cancelled appointments beyond this. Please provide at least 48 hours' notice for cancellations. You may always choose to reschedule and/or take sessions virtually to accommodate occasional scheduling conflicts.

How often should I expect to meet?

We recommend weekly therapy sessions for optimal progress. However, there are times when clients prefer to meet twice a week for more complex challenges. During your initial phone consultation, let us know if you are interested in more frequent sessions.

Are you offering in-person sessions?

Yes, we are seeing clients in our South Bay office located at 2615 Pacific Coast Highway, Suite 322, Hermosa Beach, CA 90254. We also offer telehealth sessions for California residents.

How do I get started with counseling?

The first step is to schedule an initial consultation by calling our office or submitting the contact form on our website. This allows us to understand your needs and match you with the best therapist for your situation. From there, we'll work with you to schedule ongoing sessions.

Internal Family Systems (IFS) Explained

A Revolutionary Approach to Mental Health: The Benefits of Internal Family Systems Therapy

Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy is a form of psychotherapy that is gaining popularity as a means of helping people address a wide range of emotional and psychological issues. IFS operates on the premise that the mind is composed of multiple parts, each with its own beliefs, emotions, and behaviors. By understanding and working with these different parts, we can gain greater insight into our own minds, and develop tools to regulate our emotions and behavior more effectively.

Introduction: What is Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS)?

IFS was developed in the 1990s by Richard Schwartz, a family therapist and licensed clinical social worker. Schwartz began to notice that some of his clients were unable to make progress in therapy because of what he described as "part of me" statements.

Clients would say things like "part of me wants to change, but part of me doesn't," or "part of me wants to be in a relationship, but part of me is scared to get hurt." Schwartz began to see that these clients were referring to different parts of themselves, each with its own perspective, goals, and emotions.

Over time, Schwartz developed the IFS model, which is based on the idea that people have a core "Self" that is naturally compassionate, curious, and connected. However, this Self is often obscured by the protective mechanisms of different parts, which can be positive or negative, and may work together or in conflict with one another.

The goal of IFS therapy is to help clients develop a greater understanding of their different parts, and work towards greater harmony and integration between them. This can help clients develop a greater sense of self-awareness and self-compassion, and achieve greater emotional regulation.

The IFS Model: Understanding the Parts of Your Personality

One of the key techniques used in IFS therapy is called "parts work." This involves identifying and working with different parts of oneself, including those that may be causing distress or dysfunction. Through this process, clients can learn to recognize and acknowledge their parts without being overwhelmed by them. This can help reduce the influence of negative parts and increase the power of positive ones.

The IFS model divides an individual's personality into three main categories of parts: Managers, Firefighters, and Exiles. Managers are the parts that try to keep the individual safe and in control, while Firefighters are the parts that help the individual cope with intense emotions or stress. Exiles are the parts that hold past traumas or painful experiences.

Understanding our Protectors

Managers

Managers, the first line of defense, work tirelessly to prevent pain. They take on various forms, each with its strategy:

The Taskmaster, always pushing for productivity.
The Perfectionist urges perfection at every turn.
The Busybody keeps us occupied to avoid deeper feelings.
The Inner Critic, the relentless voice of self-doubt.
The People Pleaser sacrifices our needs for others.
The Compulsive Caregiver overextends to help.
The Performer seeks validation through achievement.
The Intellectualizer analyzes to avoid feeling.
OCD compulsions, providing false control.
And many more.

Firefighters

Firefighters emerge when pain surfaces, aiming to soothe and distract:

Blankness/Dissociation, disconnecting from reality.

Physical Withdrawal, retreating into solitude.
Withdrawal into Fantasy, seeking refuge in imagination.
Self-sabotage, undermining our progress.
Substance use, numbing the pain with chemicals.
Emotional eating, comforting through food.
Sexual compulsiveness, seeking temporary relief.
Media/game binging, escaping into entertainment.
Reactivity in relationships, deflecting deeper issues.
Extreme and violent sports, channel energy elsewhere.
And more ways of seeking relief.

While Firefighters offer temporary respite, they can also lead to feelings of shame and self-criticism, adding layers to our emotional struggles.

Both Managers and Firefighters serve a critical purpose: guarding our Exiles or Inner Children. These parts of ourselves are vulnerable, emotional, and expressive, often burdened by past emotional pain. They can become exiled and denied, hidden away by our protective mechanisms.

In the landscape of IFS, understanding these Protectors is key to navigating our inner world with compassion and healing. By recognizing their roles and the ways they manifest, we can begin to build a more harmonious relationship with ourselves, welcoming all parts with understanding and care.

The Benefits of IFS: How IFS Can Help You Heal and Grow

Research has shown that Internal Family Systems therapy can be effective in treating a range of mental health concerns, including trauma, anxiety, depression, and eating disorders. In one study published in the Journal of Traumatic Stress, researchers found that IFS therapy was effective in reducing symptoms of PTSD in women who had experienced childhood sexual abuse. Another study published in the Journal of Psychotherapy Research found that IFS therapy was effective in reducing symptoms of anxiety and depression in clients with eating disorders.

One reason for the effectiveness of Internal Family Systems therapy may be its emphasis on self-compassion and acceptance. By recognizing and accepting all parts of oneself, including those that may be causing distress, clients can develop greater self-awareness and self-compassion. This can help reduce negative self-talk and increase feelings of self-worth, which can be especially important for clients who have experienced trauma or other forms of adversity.

Another reason for the effectiveness of Internal Family Systems therapy may be its focus on the therapeutic relationship. IFS therapists strive to create a safe and supportive environment where clients feel heard, understood, and respected. This can help clients feel more comfortable exploring their inner world and sharing their thoughts and emotions. It can also help build trust and rapport between the client and therapist, which can be essential for successful therapy outcomes

IFS FAQs

IFS can be a helpful therapy for individuals struggling with a wide range of issues, including anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship problems. It is particularly effective for individuals who feel "stuck" in their healing process or who have tried other therapies without success. However, IFS may not be appropriate for individuals with severe mental health issues or those who are actively suicidal.
IFS therapy aims to address and resolve conflicts that exist between an individual's different parts. The ultimate objective is to enable individuals to live from their core Self, which embodies attributes such as compassion, wisdom, and confidence. By working through these internal conflicts and understanding the different parts of oneself, individuals can achieve a state of inner harmony and alignment that allows their core Self to guide their thoughts, feelings, and actions. Through this process of internal exploration and integration, individuals can establish a deeper connection with their authentic Self and navigate life in a more balanced, empowered, and authentic way.
Giving voice to all parts of oneself plays a crucial role in successful treatment and the development of an embodied self. When individuals can acknowledge and express all aspects of themselves, including both vulnerability and strength, they create a more integrated sense of self. This process allows internal conflicts to be addressed in therapy without labeling clients as resistant or difficult to treat.
By recognizing and honoring the worries, fears, and insecurities that may arise during therapy, individuals can work through these challenges in a supportive environment. This approach is essential in various therapeutic modalities, such as Cognitive Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, Somatic Therapy, and Psychodynamic Therapy.
Through this process of giving voice to all parts of oneself, individuals can access their internal system's protective mechanisms and address underlying concerns that may be hindering progress in therapy. Ultimately, this practice fosters a sense of safety and self-awareness, allowing individuals to navigate their healing journey more effectively and develop a more cohesive and embodied sense of self.
Parts therapy can effectively address differences and conflicts in agendas between internal parts that may result in emotional gridlock. By focusing on the various aspects of the individual's psyche or 'parts' that hold different beliefs, desires, and fears, the therapy aims to understand and resolve the inner conflicts that hinder emotional healing. For example, in a therapeutic setting, a client may express a strong motivation to overcome a specific trauma or issue but continuously encounter obstacles, distractions, or self-sabotaging behaviors that impede progress. Through exploring these barriers and limitations, therapists can identify conflicting agendas held by different 'parts' of the individual's psyche. By delving deeper into these internal conflicts and understanding the underlying concerns or fears that may be driving counterproductive behaviors, therapists can help facilitate resolution and alignment among the conflicting parts. Through acknowledgment, exploration, and integration of these disparate aspects of the self, parts therapy can pave the way for a smoother and more successful healing process, enabling individuals to overcome emotional gridlock and work towards achieving their treatment goals.
Perfectionistic pressure can have a significant impact on one's well-being and creativity. When individuals constantly set impossibly high standards for themselves in various aspects of their lives, such as work, relationships, or personal goals, it can lead to heightened stress levels and a sense of being overwhelmed. This pressure to constantly strive for perfection can result in feelings of anxiety, self-doubt, and burnout.
Furthermore, the relentless pursuit of perfection may stifle creativity and innovation. When individuals are fixated on achieving flawless outcomes, they may become too focused on following established norms and rules, limiting their ability to think outside the box and explore new ideas. Creativity thrives in an environment that embraces imperfection and allows for experimentation and risk-taking.
By understanding that it's okay to embrace imperfections and vulnerabilities, individuals can alleviate some of the pressure they put on themselves and create space for their creativity and individuality to flourish. Embracing the imperfect aspects of oneself can lead to a deeper sense of authenticity and self-compassion, fostering mental well-being and unleashing newfound creativity.
Inner conflict refers to the discord that occurs between different aspects or 'parts' within oneself. This conflict can lead to feelings of being stuck or stagnated in various areas of life, such as therapy, business, or personal goals. When individuals find themselves exerting considerable effort but not making progress or feeling like they are going around in circles, it may indicate the presence of an inner conflict. This conflict can cause a state of gridlock or stagnation in emotional healing and personal growth. Addressing these internal conflicts through therapy techniques like parts work can help to identify and reconcile the conflicting agendas within oneself, potentially resolving the 'stuck points' hindering progress in different aspects of life.
Regression in time can manifest in various ways, such as feeling like a younger version of oneself, experiencing emotional reactions more typical of a past age, engaging in behaviors reminiscent of childhood, or craving specific foods associated with earlier stages of life. These signs may indicate a temporary shift to a younger emotional state, disconnected from one's current adult self.
To address regression in time, individuals can first acknowledge and identify the activated younger part within themselves. Understanding the triggers and underlying reasons behind this regression is crucial in managing its effects. One approach is to visually represent the inner dynamic by imagining an adult part gently accompanying and comforting the younger self. This visualization can help provide perspective, reassurance, and guidance for the emotional aspect that requires attention and care.
Additionally, offering self-compassion and acknowledging that the younger emotional parts are not alone can aid in the integration of these experiences with one's present adult self. Through this process of self-reflection, recognition, and nurturing, individuals can navigate regression in time with understanding and empathy toward themselves.

What to Expect in an IFS Therapy Session

An IFS therapy session typically involves working with your therapist to identify and explore your parts. You will learn how to connect with your core Self and engage in a compassionate dialogue with your parts to better understand their needs and goals. Your therapist may also teach you specific techniques and exercises to help you integrate and transform your parts

Finding Healing and Growth through IFS

IFS is a powerful and transformative therapy that can help individuals heal and grow in their personal and professional lives. By developing self-awareness, increasing self-compassion, and learning to lead your parts with compassion and understanding, you can find greater peace, balance, and fulfillment. If you think IFS might be right for you, take the first step in your healing journey by scheduling an IFS therapy consultation to learn more and see if you are a good candidate for Internal Family Systems.

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Helpful Videos on Internal Family Systems

Have you ever felt like there are conflicting voices or emotions within you, each vying for control of your thoughts and actions? If so, you're not alone. IFS for short, a profound approach that can help you navigate the complex terrain of your inner world, especially when it comes to healing from trauma.

IFS recognizes that your mind isn't a single, unified entity but a complex system composed of various "parts" or sub-personalities. These parts can be shaped by past experiences, especially traumatic ones, leading to inner conflicts and emotional turbulence