How do I know if Lisa Chen & Associates is the right fit for me?

We offer a complimentary 15-minute phone consultation. It's a chance to get to know us, understand our approach, and see if we align with your needs. The purpose of an initial consultation is to determine if you are a good fit for working together. You can expect a 15-20 minute conversation where you will have the opportunity to share your concerns, goals, and what you hope to achieve through therapy. This is also a chance for you to ask questions and get a sense of the therapist's approach and personality.

Our fees range from $180 to $350 per 50-minute session based on the clinician's experience, specialized training, and services provided. Lisa Chen's fees are $350 per 50-minute session for both individual and couples counseling. Licensed Client Session fees are $200 for individual and $225 for couples counseling per 50-minute session. Associate Clinician fees are $180 for individual and $200 for couples counseling per 50-minute session. We also reserve spots for clients requesting a sliding-scale rate to accommodate financial needs.

Do you accept insurance?

Lisa Chen & Associates are out-of-network providers. We provide monthly insurance statements ('Superbills') for you to seek partial reimbursement from your insurance company according to your policy. For questions about your out-of-network benefits, please contact your insurance carrier before scheduling.

What is your cancellation policy?

Weekly clients are allowed 3 free cancellations every 6 months, and bi-weekly clients are allowed 2 free cancellations every 6 months, beginning from the date of your first session. You will be responsible for payment for your normally scheduled session time for all cancelled appointments beyond this. Please provide at least 48 hours' notice for cancellations. You may always choose to reschedule and/or take sessions virtually to accommodate occasional scheduling conflicts.

How often should I expect to meet?

We recommend weekly therapy sessions for optimal progress. However, there are times when clients prefer to meet twice a week for more complex challenges. During your initial phone consultation, let us know if you are interested in more frequent sessions.

Are you offering in-person sessions?

Yes, we are seeing clients in our South Bay office located at 2615 Pacific Coast Highway, Suite 322, Hermosa Beach, CA 90254. We also offer telehealth sessions for California residents.

How do I get started with counseling?

The first step is to schedule an initial consultation by calling our office or submitting the contact form on our website. This allows us to understand your needs and match you with the best therapist for your situation. From there, we'll work with you to schedule ongoing sessions.

Revitalize Your Relationship with IFS Couples Therapy

Are you and your partner struggling to maintain a strong, healthy connection? Do you find yourselves stuck in negative patterns, unable to break free from the cycle of arguments and misunderstandings? If so, you're not alone. Many couples in Hermosa Beach and throughout California face challenges in their relationships.

As a licensed psychotherapist specializing in IFS (Internal Family Systems) Couples Therapy, I can help you and your partner unlock the secrets to a stronger, more fulfilling bond. My practice offers in-person sessions in Hermosa Beach as well as online therapy for California residents seeking relationship counseling from the comfort of their homes.

What is IFS Couples Therapy or IFIO?

IFS Couples Therapy is based on the groundbreaking Internal Family Systems model developed by Richard Schwartz. The Internal Family Systems (IFS) model is a therapeutic approach created by Richard Schwartz in the 1980s. This model proposes that individuals possess various internal parts, each with unique thoughts, emotions, and motives. These parts can be classified into categories such as managers, firefighters, and exiles. When applied to couples therapy, the IFS model suggests that these parts are also present within the relationship. The goal of IFS Couples Therapy is to assist couples in recognizing and addressing their wounded parts, minimizing conflict between these aspects, and building a healthier and more balanced connection between partners.

These parts can be categorized as managers (the parts that try to keep everything under control), firefighters (the parts that react to stress), and exiles (the parts that hold unresolved emotions or past traumas).

In IFS Couples Therapy, we explore how these parts interact within each partner and within the relationship itself. By understanding and healing the wounded parts, we can reduce conflict, improve communication, and foster a deeper, more compassionate connection.

The Benefits of IFS Couples Therapy (IFIO)

IFS Couples Therapy offers numerous benefits for couples seeking to strengthen their relationship. One of the key advantages is improved communication. By gaining insight into the different parts within themselves and their partner, couples can better express their needs, wants, and concerns, reducing misunderstandings and conflicts.

Another benefit is the healing of past wounds. Many individuals carry emotional baggage from previous relationships or childhood experiences that can impact their current partnership. IFS Couples Therapy provides a safe and supportive environment to explore and heal these wounds, allowing couples to move forward and create a healthier dynamic.

Additionally, IFS Couples Therapy helps couples develop a deeper understanding and empathy for each other. By recognizing and acknowledging the different parts within themselves and their partner, couples gain insight into why certain behaviors or reactions occur, fostering acceptance and support.

How IFS Couples Therapy (IFIO) Works

In IFS Couples Therapy, the process typically starts with an in-depth initial assessment conducted by the therapist. During this assessment, the therapist delves into the couple's relationship history, current obstacles they are facing, and their desired outcomes for therapy. Following the assessment phase, the focus shifts to identifying the different internal parts present within each individual partner as well as within the relationship itself. The therapy sessions in IFS Couples Therapy involve a balanced mix of individual and joint sessions. In the individual sessions, each partner has the opportunity to delve into their own internal parts, gaining insight into their unique dynamics and motivations. This self-exploration helps individuals better understand themselves and their role within the relationship. Conversely, joint sessions in IFS Couples Therapy concentrate on the interaction between the internal parts of both partners and how these parts influence the overall dynamics of the relationship. By delving into these dynamics together, the couple can gain a deeper understanding of how their internal worlds intersect and impact their relationship as a whole. Through this collaborative exploration, couples can work towards fostering greater harmony and understanding within their relationship.

During our sessions, we will work together to identify the different parts within each partner and the relationship as a whole. This may involve individual sessions for self-exploration, as well as joint sessions focused on improving communication and resolving conflicts.

I will guide you through various techniques and exercises, such as visualization, journaling, role-playing, and guided conversations. These techniques are designed to strengthen your connection, heal past wounds, and create a safe and supportive space for growth and healing.

Common Issues Addressed

. In IFS Couples Therapy, various common relationship challenges can be effectively addressed. These include communication problems, where couples struggle with expressing thoughts and emotions, misunderstandings, and conflict resolution. Trust issues, particularly in the aftermath of infidelity or betrayal, are another important area that this therapy approach can help with, as rebuilding trust is crucial for healthy relationships. Emotional distance, which can lead to feelings of disconnection and loneliness, is also a key issue that can be tackled through IFS Couples Therapy. Intimacy concerns, both physical and emotional, are addressed to reignite passion within the relationship. Finally, parenting challenges can strain a couple's relationship, and IFS Couples Therapy offers guidance and support in navigating the complexities of parenting together.

Communication problems
Trust issues
Emotional distance
Intimacy concerns
Parenting challenges

Integrating IFS Couples Therapy into Your Relationship

As we progress through therapy, I will provide guidance on integrating the principles and techniques of IFS Couples Therapy into your daily lives. This may involve practicing active listening, communicating with compassion, fostering a safe space for vulnerability, and continual self-reflection.

By incorporating these practices into your relationship, you can continue to strengthen your bond and create a lasting, fulfilling partnership.

Integrating the principles and techniques of IFS Couples Therapy into daily life can significantly strengthen a relationship. Here are some ways in which couples can do this:

1. Practice Active Listening: Couples can make an effort to actively listen to each other, showing genuine interest in their partner's perspective. Giving undivided attention and seeking to understand their feelings can enhance communication and connection.

2. Communicate with Compassion: Using "I" statements and reflecting on one's own emotions before expressing them to the partner can foster empathy and understanding. This approach to communication can help in resolving conflicts and strengthening emotional bonds.

3. Create a Safe Space: Establishing a safe and non-judgmental environment where both partners can express themselves freely is crucial. Encouraging vulnerability, validating each other's feelings, and showing empathy can deepen emotional intimacy and trust.

4. Engage in Self-Reflection: Regularly reflecting on one's internal dynamics, triggers, and patterns is essential. Understanding oneself better enables more effective communication and empathy towards the partner. Couples can discuss their reflections with each other to improve mutual understanding. By incorporating these practices into daily life, couples can build a stronger bond, enhance communication, and create a fulfilling partnership founded on mutual respect, understanding, and emotional connection

Take the First Step Towards a Stronger Relationship

If you and your partner are seeking relationship counseling in Hermosa Beach or online therapy for couples in California, I invite you to explore the benefits of IFS Couples Therapy. With my guidance and this transformative approach, you can revitalize your connection and build a stronger, more resilient bond that will stand the test of time.

Contact me today to schedule an initial consultation and take the first step towards a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.

Revitalize Your Relationship with IFS Couples Therapy [Intimacy from the Inside Out]