How do I know if Lisa Chen & Associates is the right fit for me?

We offer a complimentary 15-minute phone consultation. It's a chance to get to know us, understand our approach, and see if we align with your needs. The purpose of an initial consultation is to determine if you are a good fit for working together. You can expect a 15-20 minute conversation where you will have the opportunity to share your concerns, goals, and what you hope to achieve through therapy. This is also a chance for you to ask questions and get a sense of the therapist's approach and personality.

Our fees range from $180 to $350 per 50-minute session based on the clinician's experience, specialized training, and services provided. Lisa Chen's fees are $350 per 50-minute session for both individual and couples counseling. Licensed Client Session fees are $200 for individual and $225 for couples counseling per 50-minute session. Associate Clinician fees are $180 for individual and $200 for couples counseling per 50-minute session. We also reserve spots for clients requesting a sliding-scale rate to accommodate financial needs.

Do you accept insurance?

Lisa Chen & Associates are out-of-network providers. We provide monthly insurance statements ('Superbills') for you to seek partial reimbursement from your insurance company according to your policy. For questions about your out-of-network benefits, please contact your insurance carrier before scheduling.

What is your cancellation policy?

Weekly clients are allowed 3 free cancellations every 6 months, and bi-weekly clients are allowed 2 free cancellations every 6 months, beginning from the date of your first session. You will be responsible for payment for your normally scheduled session time for all cancelled appointments beyond this. Please provide at least 48 hours' notice for cancellations. You may always choose to reschedule and/or take sessions virtually to accommodate occasional scheduling conflicts.

How often should I expect to meet?

We recommend weekly therapy sessions for optimal progress. However, there are times when clients prefer to meet twice a week for more complex challenges. During your initial phone consultation, let us know if you are interested in more frequent sessions.

Are you offering in-person sessions?

Yes, we are seeing clients in our South Bay office located at 2615 Pacific Coast Highway, Suite 322, Hermosa Beach, CA 90254. We also offer telehealth sessions for California residents.

How do I get started with counseling?

The first step is to schedule an initial consultation by calling our office or submitting the contact form on our website. This allows us to understand your needs and match you with the best therapist for your situation. From there, we'll work with you to schedule ongoing sessions.

Are You an HSP, Empath, or Both? | Lisa Chen & Associates Therapy

As a Hermosa Beach psychotherapist specializing in sensitivity and emotional intelligence, I've encountered many clients who struggle to understand their heightened reactions to the world around them. Two terms that often come up in these discussions are "Highly Sensitive Person" (HSP) and "Empath". While these labels can overlap, they describe distinct experiences of sensitivity. Let's dive into what each means, how they differ, and most importantly, how understanding these traits can empower you.

What is a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)?

The term "Highly Sensitive Person" was coined by psychologist Dr. Elaine Aron in the 1990s. HSPs have a sensitive nervous system that processes stimuli more deeply than others. Key characteristics include:

Sensitivity to subtle stimuli (sounds, smells, textures)
Tendency to feel overwhelmed in busy or chaotic environments
Deep processing of information and experiences
Strong emotional reactions
Need for downtime to recharge

Dr. Aron estimates that about 15-20% of the population are HSPs. It's important to note that high sensitivity is a neutral trait - it comes with both challenges and strengths.

What is an Empath?

While not a clinical term, "Empath" is widely used to describe individuals who are highly attuned to the emotions and energies of others. Empaths often report:

Absorbing others' emotions as if they were their own
Feeling drained after social interactions
Strong intuition about others' feelings and needs
Difficulty setting emotional boundaries
A deep desire to help and heal others

Key Differences

The main distinction lies in the focus of sensitivity:

Source of Stimulation: HSPs are sensitive to all types of stimuli (physical, emotional, environmental), while Empaths are primarily sensitive to emotional and energetic stimuli from other people.
Processing: HSPs deeply process all information, whereas Empaths specifically process emotional information from others.
Boundaries: While both may struggle with overwhelm, Empaths often have more difficulty distinguishing their emotions from others'.
Origin: High sensitivity is a scientifically recognized trait with a genetic component, while the concept of Empaths is more anecdotal and experiential.

Similarities and Overlap

Despite these differences, HSPs and Empaths share many experiences:

Both can feel overwhelmed in stimulating environments
Both tend to be deeply compassionate and caring
Both may need more alone time to recharge
Both often report feeling "different" or misunderstood by others

Many individuals identify as both HSP and Empath, suggesting a significant overlap between these traits.

Personal Stories: HSP and Empath Experiences

To illustrate these concepts, let me share two brief client stories (names changed for privacy):

Sarah, an HSP: Sarah came to therapy feeling constantly overwhelmed. She described being easily startled by loud noises, feeling uncomfortable in scratchy clothing, and needing hours alone after social events. We worked on creating a sensory-friendly environment and developing coping strategies for overstimulating situations. Sarah learned to appreciate her sensitivity as a strength, particularly in her work as a designer where her attention to detail was highly valued.
Michael, an Empath: Michael sought help for emotional exhaustion. He described "feeling everyone's pain" and struggled to watch the news or set boundaries with needy friends. Our work focused on developing emotional boundaries, grounding techniques, and self-care practices. Michael found that his empathic abilities, when properly managed, made him an excellent counselor and mediator.

Thriving as an HSP or Empath

Whether you identify as an HSP, an Empath, or both, here are some strategies to help you thrive:

Create a Nurturing Environment: Design your living and working spaces to suit your sensitivity levels.
Practice Self-Care: Regular relaxation, meditation, or time in nature can help recharge your batteries.
Set Boundaries: Learn to say no and prioritize your own needs.
Find Your Tribe: Connect with other HSPs or Empaths who understand your experiences.
Harness Your Strengths: Your sensitivity can be a superpower in the right contexts - in creative pursuits, caregiving professions, or leadership roles that require emotional intelligence.
Seek Professional Support: A therapist experienced in working with HSPs and Empaths can provide valuable coping strategies and support.

Embrace Your Sensitivity

Remember, being highly sensitive or empathic isn't a flaw - it's a unique way of experiencing the world.

“The difference in our sensitivity is not a fault or an error. It’s not something to be fixed. It’s part of our particular brand of humanity.”

— Dr. Elaine Aron

By understanding and embracing your sensitivity, whether as an HSP, an Empath, or both, you can learn to navigate the world in a way that honors your needs while sharing your gifts with others.

If you're on a journey of self-discovery and think you might be an HSP or Empath, consider taking the HSP Self-Test developed by Dr. Aron, or explore resources from Highly Sensitive Refuge. Remember, these labels are tools for understanding yourself better, not rigid categories.

Embrace your sensitivity, honor your needs, and let your unique perspective illuminate the world around you.